Different strokes for different folks.
I am happy driving the car myself, If I had a choice, I would not drive an automatic transmission vehicle either. I can get far better mileage shifting manually. I learned to drive a standard transmission vehicle not that long after I learned to walk. Neither walking nor shifting for myself is a problem, even at my advanced age.
My 23 EX does have the heated leather steering wheel and I sometimes find it handy because the circulation in my hands and feet is not what it once was. No ventilated seats though. But I held out for the light gray interior and I find that when I leave it in the sun it is really not bad, probably because the back and rear windows are tinted so darkly that it stays cooler inside.
For me, I chose not to look at the SX because it included the Panoramic sunroof, another feature I would never use. My last car, which I drove for 20+ years, was a Honda S2000 convertible, 6-speed standard shift. The reasons I sold it after buying the Kia is that I now wear hearing aids and driving with the top down was incompatible with wearing them and I had reached an age where getting out of it was a problem with an artificial knee.
Wayne