James T.
Take your money to whoever wants to give you what you want... or just don't spend it if that works best for you. The dealer we were at said 5k over, wife gets up and goes over in a corner and proceeds to talk to the other dealership who we also had shopped at. The sales guy gets up with the proposal and says don't leave. Comes back with a new deal, flat msrp and the $2500 orygun vehicle kickback was now taken off total.... not a wait and get a check in the mail....
Lovely new 2023 PHEV Shadow Grey Matte Xline sits in my driveway. Of course stepson needed to total my 2019 PHEV Niro for downpayment... but I digress.
Oh, and sidebar, the dealer 5miles away... after they didn't do half the routine oil change stuff (check air, rotate which I paid additional for) does not see my business anymore and I now choose to go 35 miles to the other dealership.
I guess locations will play into that, but I hear people drive long distances to save a few bucks regardless.